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Title: Victimizing Games Code: 201.06.b [prev] | [next] Deck: Nature of the Game Sponsor: Birthdate: December 1, 2006 Task: What holds you back. Untie yourself. eXperience Log: Click here or scroll down

Description: We have all experienced the feeling of being a victim, but this is only a game involving the transfer of energy. Some of us may have learned early in life that by playing into the role of the victim, a poor me attitude or an aloof response, we got the attention we needed. Others are unfairly victimized and learn to 'be' a victim, as if that role defines who they are. Remember this is just a game and these are merely roles we take. How can this role of the victim be holding you or others back? How may the victimizing games be a projection of yours of others? What your response will be to what occurs in your life will ultimately determine how it effects you in the long run. Remember, all challenges are opportunities for growth, even if we are the victim. Untie your chains of sorrow, and let go of what holds you back from reaching your highest potential.

The "Victimizing Games" (10 Intentions)

2011-08-01 BenRayfield	make the universe more interesting. the universe is more interesting when many work together to do more advanced things instead of "victimizing" eachother.
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2011-05-23 rg	to enable others there is nothing holding me back from living my fullest life.
	2 Connections 2011-08-01 BenRayfield there is some overlap in the 2 goals, but your goal appears to have changed from enabling others to enabling yourself. 2011-08-01 BenRayfield there is some overlap in the 2 goals, but your goal appears to have changed from enabling others to enabling yourself. "victimizing games" happen most often with the self-deception of trying to help others, leading to logical statements about such goals while the emotional reality of it is that yourself is the highest goal. for example, research at givewell has found that the most efficient charities save 1 human life per $1000 donated, and most people say human life is worth more than millions of dollars, but when it comes to the supply and demand of it, the fact is people value others lives at $1000 each, for the cheapest lives to save, and they're waiting for the price of saving a life to come down before they donate. people make up logical "knowledge" statements like "human life is priceless" and "everyone is equal", but when it comes to spending $1000 human life isn't worth that much. human life is worth $1000 is a logical statement. human life is priceless is an emotional statement. which one is relevant when people are dieing from this?
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2011-02-05 ladorno

my intention is to create opulent abundance by august 23, 2011 i recently came to this conclusion that perhaps i have always walked around being a victim. as a child i was a witness to my mother's victim (hood) and other stuff that have an impact from early childhood. i don't want to continue blaming my parents (i thought i stopped doing that). i want a life of abundance and wealth, the ability to go places and do things without worrying about the money. when i had the opportunity to be in the money 10 years ago but i sabotaged the deal and here i am talking about the money again. when do i stop?

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2010-03-17 j	to do business with sensi chocolates. we need to have a highly cooperative environment and be able to play together to untie and move forward in a good way.
	2 Connections 2010-03-17 j to find an alignment.... get inside of each others mind to understand each other and win. 2010-03-17 j what next. there needs to be an evolution for an alignement.
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2009-09-20 banga	my intention is to be my true size. to take up space and stop apologizing for myself. to be powerful or small according to what i need. to dissolve my outdated fear of being seen. wow. i know this is what i need to do, but i don't know how.
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2008-12-15 anewdawn	i need to know how to implement the changes, should they be sudden and immediate i get it certain things are dragging me down, zim and uk bus issues
	3 Connections 2008-12-16 anewdawn do not be the victim or victimise others possibly i may already be the victim as others are telling me 2008-12-16 anewdawn what then if this is the case yes i shall and have learn't from it. 2008-12-16 anewdawn i would like to assert myself more now this means i need to tune out to external noise , such as emotions, what other people think i should think or say, and assert myself on my intuitions, desires and insights
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2008-08-05 kickapooscout	to attract others who are into spiritual growth
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2007-08-20 j	be cause time to let go and move beyond any blocks.
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2007-08-04 Leonardo	i want to demonstrate simplicity, functionality, and excellence. complexity is at odds with simplicity. clarity is key in approaching a complex challenge and emerging with a simple solution.
	2 Connections 2007-08-04 j we need to learn to free ourselves. take a snapshot of the moment 2007-10-10 Leonardo in order to demonstrate it, i must embody it. i could make a "coat of arms" with images of the principles i wish to embody. then i could "wear" this and incorporate it into my being.
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2007-06-27 jeffk

find the most significant weakness of the game that we should addressed first. maintain anonymity, privacy, self-directed thinking. don't allow the game to control your thinking! show how the game could be used to manipulate your thinking and how other common manipulation occurs. contrast this with how the game is constructed in a more trustworthy way. demonstrate where scientific thinking has been applied. we are building a positive or meaningful experience rather than a trivial game, so stop focusing so much on the game - focus on the user's experience; walk me through from start to finish. also, tell me what you will do with the words i input here.

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